I really need to do updates on each of the kiddos. J seems to be the one that daily gives me pause so he gets to be my first update...
J and Rich continue to do monthly dates that consist of picking a new donut store and then riding there on their tag-a-long bike. Rich gets the workout and J gets the donut - everyone is happy!
J asked me this past week why grandparents are so patient. I told him it is because they have been parents for so long, that they have lots of practice. He told me that that makes no sense because parents are NOT patient.
J was trying (unsuccessfully) to get T to stop talking and was getting very frustrated. I asked J what was wrong and he told me that T was “overflowing with talking”.
J and T have been taking swim lessons that start at 11:45. As we were driving to them one day, T asked how long until his class started. The clock said 11:33 but I said “10 minutes”. J, without missing a beat, said, “no mom it’s 12 minutes”. Who taught him to tell time and to do math?
I was telling T to buckle into his car seat and he kept telling me he couldn’t do it – a frustrating ritual because he CAN do it. The third time I asked I said, “T you KNOW how to buckle” and J said, “and you know how to ask nicely mom”.
J is definitely growing up and wanting to be his own person. That means that he gets frustrated a bit more than he used to (with me) but we are working through it. The truth is, he is pretty capable and it's mom that needs to start loosening the apron strings. It just doesn't seem possible that another one of my kids is becoming independent.
J is a very smart boy. He has an amazing memory and his logic is pretty impressive.
J still loves to be outside although he doesn't play with the neighbor boy hardly at all anymore. I wish he still had that social opportunity.
J can be very rough. I warn everyone, "please don't encourage him" because with very little encouragement he goes from 0-60! We are working on that.
J has a very sincere desire to make good choices and he listens and retains a lot from his primary classes.
J is very affectionate on his own terms. He will come up out of nowhere to give me a hug or to cuddle and I love it. Yet when approached will generally blow you off :)
I hope you know how much your are loved J. We are so glad you are part of our family!